It is said that women are born with two major “weapons” against men: the first is tears, and the second is being coquettish. Any man with a bit of conscience will soften his heart and raise his hand in surrender when encountering one of these.
But it seems that at some point, being coquettish has become a sin similar to being “pretentious”, and more girls consider themselves “tomboys” and take pride in it.
Of course, there are also people who say that tomboys are all forced out because no one spoils them!
Learning to be coquettish is a great helper in winning back an ex-boyfriend
At first glance, this statement seems quite reasonable, but upon closer analysis, it turns out to be not the case.
Let’s think about such a question: Do men like women to be coquettish?
Definitely like it.
Perhaps someone will retort, “Come on, my husband doesn’t like it. There’s no such thing as being so certain!”
But I want to say that being coquettish is actually an art, and the timing and measure are very important. If one is unreasonable to the point of losing control, taking one step forward is “throwing a tantrum”, and taking another step forward is “being wild”. Not only will the sentiment be lost, but one’s dignity will also be completely ruined. Men will surely be extremely eager for such a situation. How could they possibly like it?
By the way, there are mainly three reasons why men like women to act coquettishly:
There is a sense of satisfaction in the heart, which can arouse the desire to protect and resolve conflicts
Whether willing to admit it or not, men are born with male chauvinism. So when a girl makes demands in a delicate way, a man will feel that he is relied on and needed. Even if he mumps it out loud, his inner world is actually greatly satisfied.
There is a woman in my circle of friends who is widely recognized as being good at being coquettish. At a party, everyone was chatting and laughing, and before we knew it, it was too late. So she called her husband and said, “Dear, it’s so dark outside. Could you come and pick me up, please?” So cute and coquettish, everyone booed in unison: “Oh, can it be any more mushy?” I’m getting goose bumps.
It wasn’t long before her husband came to pick her up, bringing her a coat and a scarf, and carefully dressed and wrapped them up for her. While doing this, he kept muttering, “How old are you? You don’t know how to take care of yourself at all. It’s so windy outside today. What if you catch a cold later?”
Listening to her husband’s nagging, she held his hand and pouted, “You’re so annoying. You just keep nagging me every day. He’s afraid of the dark. You know that…” It was also this time that we heard her husband call her naturally: “Baby.” Hearing us look at each other in astonishment, we ate another meal of dog food: “He’s almost thirty. What a big baby!”
We often find that women in love, especially at the beginning of a relationship, can often show off their coquettishness to the extreme, making your bones feel tingling. Because in a man’s heart, a woman who acts coquettishly is gentle, lovely and full of charm.
When a relationship lasts for a long time or when they get married, many women gradually lose the skill of being coquettish and always replace it with scolding and complaining.
So you will feel that life is so plain, just like a stagnant pool. In fact, the occasional act of being coquettish can stir up ripples in stagnant water and make your life colorful!
But before being coquettish, you should understand these points:
Find out the bottom line of men
To a certain extent, being coquettish is an “unreasonable” behavior, so one must never play with the principles of both sides. You must be very clear about where his pain and itch lie and to what extent he can tolerate you. What is his ability to resist being coquettish? A smart woman won’t act coquettish rashly until she has figured these out.
Master the timing and measure
The opportunity to act coquettishly is fleeting. One must seize the right moment and make a successful move. If the timing is not right or the measure is not handled properly, men will only feel puzzled and suspect that you are sensible and inconsiderate.
Be natural and unpretentious
Many people might read various online ways of being coquettish and then mechanically copy them without any modification. The effect of this can be imagined. If not handled properly, they might even be despised, just like imitating others blindly. So, when being coquettish, one must have their own style. They can imitate others, but it must be in line with their own personality and temperament.
Well, having written this far, some people might ask, “Editor, aren’t you teaching people how to win someone back?” How to teach you how to act cute?
Cough, cough. That’s because someone left a message in the background saying that the reason for their breakup was that their boyfriend disliked them for not being able to act coquettish. Now, no matter how hard they try to win back their ex-boyfriend, it’s of no use.
So I immediately realized that it seems that being coquettish can also be a major way to win someone back, but it depends on the situation.
