Many people say that the biggest test in love is long-distance relationships. There are too many cases of breakups due to long-distance relationships, which makes many couples scared at the mere mention of “long-distance”. In fact, if you do the following, you can have a long-lasting long-distance relationship and deepen your feelings for each other.
How to make a long-distance relationship last from four aspects – Long-distance relationship
I. Companionship
One of the most frustrating aspects of a long-distance relationship is that you can’t show up when the other person needs you. If the distance between the two can be resolved by plane or high-speed rail, try to reach her side as soon as possible after the incident. If the distance is really too far, then phone calls and video calls can also bring warmth to the other person.
For instance, when the other person is ill, keep in touch with her, say some heartwarming words, pay attention to her current physical condition, and secretly order some takeout for her. Although I can’t give her a hug, I should still try my best to give her the maximum warmth. Language is also a way of companionship. Being the first to hear your encouragement when she is at her saddest is also a way of companionship.
Ii. Surprises
Love will last only when it is with interesting people. The most terrifying thing in a long-distance relationship is when the other person loses the feeling of being spoiled. Once the feeling of being spoiled is lost, an uncontrollable sense of loneliness will arise. Secretly preparing some small gifts that she likes for the other person, or secretly ordering some takeout food that she likes to eat, a snack gift package can also make a girl happy for several days. Apart from girls needing to be loved, boys also need surprises. Buying him something he has always liked as a gift can also make him feel warm in his heart
Iii. Care in Daily life
One very important point for a long-distance relationship to last long is to fill each other’s lives with each other’s shadows and make the other person develop an irresistible dependence on you. I have seen couples in long-distance relationships prepare daily necessities for each other. The big and small items at home were all purchased by the two of them while shopping on Taobao together, and many of the items in their daily life are couple items. Although we are far apart, as soon as I get home, I can see your shadow. Isn’t this the most romantic thing in a long-distance relationship?
Some couples order takeout for each other. What they eat is not just food but the other’s concern for them. Many people may find this very tiring, but in order to weave the intersections in their lives and to walk together for a long time, what’s the harm in being a little tired?
Four. Mutual understanding
Long-distance relationships require more time and patience. When others have a quarrel, a hug can solve it, but a long-distance relationship requires writing a “thesis” to be resolved. Especially when they have a quarrel, the girl will pour out a lot of grievances. At this time, the boy must be patient to comfort the girl. In daily life, the girl also needs to be more considerate of the boy. Love is mutual giving.
I’ve seen that after a long-distance relationship, the couple’s spare time seems to have turned into online live-streaming. They spend all their free time and all their emotions on videos, just to tell each other how much they love each other. However, long-distance relationships can also encounter situations where the other person has their own social circle. If you go out to play and tell the other person where you are, who you are with, and when you will be back, this approach is simple and effective.
Long-distance relationships do require twice as much effort as others, but couples who have come through them will have a more stable relationship and cherish the time they spend together in the future even more. A little more understanding and respect for each other can make a long-distance relationship last longer.
