The first step: Be mentally strong and extremely patient
When a boy pursues a girl, it’s rare for him to succeed right away, especially for the conservative type of girls. As the saying goes, “A man’s pursuit of a woman is like a mountain apart!” If you want to win the heart of your goddess, you must be mentally strong and have a thick skin to win her heart. If you give up as soon as you are rejected by a girl, then there will be no chance at all. When pursuing a conservative girl, one should not be afraid of being tired or wasting time, and should have enough patience. As long as you persevere, the goddess will surely belong to you.
How to pursue a conservative girl – How to pursue a girl
Step Two: Let her get to know you gradually
While being nice to her, let her gradually get to know you, bit by bit. At the same time, you are also gradually getting to know her. This must be an interactive process. Remember, when pursuing a girl, don’t be so passive. You must gradually win her heart. When she tells you her story, at the right time, you can also tell her your own story. Then, be a little more enjoyable in life. While pursuing her, love yourself as well. Spend more time on yourself and let her see a positive and upward you.
Step 3: She must be there when she misses you
At this point, the girl gradually fell for it. Girls definitely need company before going to bed. If she likes you at this time, she will definitely want to chat with you. And you! Just put down the game and your brother, and be comfortable with her.
Step Four: Play hard to get and let go
Although this may seem a bit unfair, in order to make a conservative girl understand her love for you, you must keep your distance from her. Chasing a girl is like hunting for something. The tighter you chase her, the faster she might run. On the surface, you should pretend not to care about the girl, with an attitude that is neither too cold nor too cold, just to make the girl lower her guard against you, so that she can more easily notice her weaknesses and not expose your own shortcomings.
Don’t talk about emotions in front of girls either. Show your excellent side at the right opportunity. The purpose of doing this is to let the girl know that you are different from those men who are like flies, and to make her look at you with new eyes.
Step 5: Romance
Create some little romance, such as buying some carefully selected gifts. They don’t need to be too expensive; it’s best if they can reflect your feelings. Then give them to her on some special days! Let the other person know that you care about her very much. Your kindness to her should not be rushed but should be gradual, allowing her to accept you little by little. Care in the small details is more likely to touch people’s hearts.
Step 6: Speak appropriately
When going on a date with a conservative girl, you must pay attention to the content of your conversation and avoid talking about very superficial things. Conservative girls are highly loyal to their thoughts and feelings. These things may not be jokes but rather vulgar expressions in front of them.
They might not understand your sense of humor. Instead, they might think you are not a serious person and thus keep their distance from you. So, be sure to be careful with your words in front of conservative girls. Say what should be said at what stage and don’t overstep the boundaries.
Step 7: Give her a sense of security
Make her feel secure and allow for appropriate physical contact. In fact, people all have the desire for physical contact, both men and women. The warmth in the palm of your hand and in your embrace is the most memorable for a woman, far more memorable than any diamond for a lifetime. When she usually thinks of you, she mostly thinks of your embrace. So, don’t be stingy with hugging and interlocking your fingers. Let her see your responsible side. A person knows how to care for others and at the same time win their love and concern. When they encounter setbacks in their careers, families or daily lives, they can always take on the responsibilities they should, without being pessimistic, numb, evasive or desecrate the trust and expectations of their relatives and friends.
