Meeting a boy who makes your heart flutter makes you toss and turn, unable to sleep. So, you decide to summon up your courage to pursue the boy you love. However, although a woman’s pursuit of a man is limited to a thin veil, it is still necessary to know how to keep a proper distance. Do you know all the taboos that girls must know when pursuing boys?
Taboos that girls must know when pursuing boys – Girls pursuing boys
Taboo One: Sexual love is born from sex
To trade one’s body for a boy’s love is undoubtedly the most taboo and even the most pitiful kind of love. If you think that by paying the price of your body you can win a boy’s true heart, you are completely wrong! Men are creatures that think with their lower bodies. Even if they get your body, it doesn’t necessarily mean they will fall in love with you as a person. If they are not careful, the other party may even think you are extremely casual and even shameless.
So, girls, you must learn to cherish yourself. Never try to pursue boys at the cost of your body. Only when you love yourself can you get a beautiful love.
Taboo Two: Wearing heavy makeup
A woman adorns herself for those who please her. When a girl meets a boy she likes, she always hopes to be infinitely charming in front of him. In order to make oneself beautiful, one always deliberately dresses up. But in fact, excessive heavy makeup is actually not favored by boys. Heavy makeup can make boys feel distant from you. Even worse, they may think they can’t see your true face clearly and consider you mature and difficult to get along with.
Taboo Three: Relentless pursuit
Some girls, when pursuing boys, are carried away by the feeling of affection and keep chasing after them relentlessly. They gather around the boys every day and often invite them to have meals and watch movies. But in fact, your pursuit will make the other person feel depressed, your enthusiasm will make the other person feel scared, and even disgusted.
So, when a girl is pursuing a boy, don’t chase after him relentlessly. At this time, you can gradually and imperceptibly carry out your pursuit. Your reserve will attract him and make him curious about you. After a long time, he might even pursue you in return.
Taboo Four: Giving expensive gifts
Although the saying “the more polite, the better” has been around since ancient times, it is not suitable for girls to apply when pursuing boys. If you often give gifts to the other person and they agree to your confession, it will make people think that they are after your gifts. If they don’t agree, no matter how much you give, it will have no effect. Moreover, the gifts that boys like are mostly practical electronic products and things related to their majors. If you give such generous gifts, it will make boys feel that it is damaging to their reputation, making them think they are taking advantage of others, and it is also easy to draw criticism from people around them. Therefore, boys generally dislike such behavior.
It should be noted that if you come across a guy who accepts you just because you give him a generous gift, you should be cautious. It’s possible that he’s just after your money. Such a guy’s character needs to be verified.
Taboo Five: Putting oneself in a low position
Some girls think that in order to make the boy they love fall in love with them, they can give everything for him. So they put themselves in a humble position and silently give a lot for him. However, you don’t understand that the favored ones are always fearless. Your humility doesn’t necessarily bring his pity. On the contrary, he may even look down on you and won’t care about your feelings. Such love, even if you eventually get it, is distorted. Two people should be equal when they are together. Whoever is at a lower position will not truly have happiness. So, rather than loving humbly, it’s better to be more confident and love the other person with dignity.
