When the other person decides to break up with you, they have already rejected you completely. At this point, no matter what you do, the other person will only think that you are just pretending to try to win them back. Even after winning them back, they will gradually become the same as before. To put it bluntly, she just feels that she can’t trust you, or rather, you don’t have the value of her trust.
First, find out the real reason why she left you
The words that girls say most often when breaking up are: “We’re not a good match. I have no feelings for you anymore.” But is that really the case? In fact, this is just the polite words she said to you, merely to make it easier for your heart to accept the decision to break up. When a girl says she wants to break up, it is often the result of many problems evolving during the relationship. Common reasons for breaking up include: During the relationship, did you give her enough care, consideration or comfort?
Have you fulfilled your responsibility as a lover? Don’t think that it’s enough for you to work hard to meet her material needs. You also need to meet her spiritual needs, and love is one of them. There is sufficient information showing the forms of love that women need, including care, understanding, respect, loyalty, consideration and comfort.
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Second, keep an appropriate distance from your girlfriend
You might have used the words like “gummy candies” to win back your girlfriend before, constantly revolving around her, asking about her well-being and never getting tired of it. Obviously, that has no practical effect (otherwise, one wouldn’t come here to seek inspiration). So, from now on, it’s a good idea to keep an appropriate distance from your girlfriend. Don’t always take the initiative to contact her. Just greet her from time to time every day. Don’t stick to her all the time. Change your predestined impression and reorganize your way of getting along. Of course, keeping a distance doesn’t mean you should disappear, but rather chat with her in a different identity and mindset. In other words, previously you were trying to win back your girlfriend’s heart as a suitor, but now you have changed your status and become her ordinary friend. This way, it’s less likely to cause her aversion; instead, it’s more conducive for you to get closer.
Third, change the fixed impression and reorganize the way of getting along
When a girl is in the stage of a breakup, she needs to have some space and time to heal her inner self and use this period to forget your relationship. So at this point, don’t pester her; otherwise, it will only add to the trauma in her heart. At this point in time, when trying to win her back, you should have something that can subvert her thoughts. Only in this way can you break the fixed impression you have in her mind and change yourself in the most direct way, moving closer to the direction she likes. At this point, it is necessary to involve changes in one’s own image and lifestyle.
In fact, saving love is a short-term goal, and long-term goals should also be in place. After all, everyone’s time and energy are limited. The most important thing is to be able to grasp the existing love well and prevent it from being burned up over trivial matters. Since fate is so great, let’s get rid of those unnecessary conflicts and strive for a better future.
