Leaving is just to change the other person. Hehe! Change yourself. Being together with the idea of changing others is bound to be unfortunate. However, there is one exception: when you are of particularly “high value”, the other party will voluntarily change.
But this high value refers to the man being wealthy and considerate, and the woman being beautiful and gentle. For those who have not received our professional training, this is obviously a bit difficult. Wealth and honor can be learned, and ugliness can also be made beautiful; it just requires professional guidance. Therefore, the best way to save a marriage is not to change others, but to change oneself.
Keep passionate and happy
When breaking up, no one will feel comfortable. It’s very normal to be sad. But don’t bring sadness into the communication between the two of you.
Because this will remind the other person of the unhappy things when you broke up.
Your happiness and joy will infect the other person’s emotions and also make him feel happy.
You can start the conversation by talking about the happy things that have happened recently or the interesting things in your life.
“Reconciliation is not about making up for it; it’s about a second attraction.”
Pestering and apologizing in a decadent manner will only continuously lower one’s image and passively accept the results given by the other party. Using a positive and optimistic attitude to attract the other party again often makes communication between the two people easy and the atmosphere harmonious, which is more conducive to reconciliation.
One should get rid of the bad habit of speaking without restraint and learn to respect the other party
As a woman, you should learn to cultivate yourself in the passage of time instead of speaking without restraint.
Don’t think
A sharp tongue but a kind heart is an advantage, which many men find intolerable.
For men, the reason why they can’t listen to you is often that you talk too much and the words can’t reach their hearts. So when he was with you, he kept his mouth shut. Outside, however, he was chatting and laughing merrily with other women. You didn’t understand and thought it was all his fault, so you gritted your teeth fiercely.
One should get rid of the bad habit of speaking without restraint and learn to respect the other party
As a woman, you should learn to cultivate yourself in the passage of time instead of speaking without restraint.
Don’t think
A sharp tongue but a kind heart is an advantage, which many men find intolerable.
For men, the reason why they can’t listen to you is often that you talk too much and the words can’t reach their hearts.
So when he was with you, he kept his mouth shut. Outside, however, he was chatting and laughing merrily with other women. You didn’t understand and thought it was all his fault, so you gritted your teeth fiercely.
Finally, I would like to offer some advice to friends who are trying to save their relationships. When a relationship is in a state of breaking up and heading towards death, please first learn how to love yourself and let love flow within you. Only then will your partner love you.
